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The reason charity never fails and the reason charity is greater than even the most significant acts of goodness he (Paul 1 Cor. 13) cited is that charity, “the pure love of Christ” (Moro. 7:47), is not an act but a condition or state of being. Charity is attained through a succession of acts that result in a conversion. Charity is something one becomes.

The Challenge to Become  

By Elder Dallin H. Oaks

I love the wording of being converted to charity. What if instead of goals, we sought conversion to the things we want to be. Not just checking boxes and repeating tasks but converting ourselves. Goals have never worked for me. Setting my vision of who I want to be and following that path has. Find what works for you.